THINGS THAT MAY HOLD YOU BACK TO BE A SUCCESSFUL PERSON

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33The human being born without fear, but, when he started to explore the things around him, they begin saying things like, “get away from there, “don’t touch it”, “stop”, “contemplate”, “ Danger things”, “Look out”, “be vigilant”, and other many similar words scaring and horrifying the man. Your parents and people around you begin teaching you to be afraid by programming the fears into your heart and all these scaring things will hold you back to be a successful person for the rest of your life. You are the only one who can deprogram yourself by the most negative powerful words of all, “ No, You can’t do that”, “I am not smart enough”, “ I am not creative enough”, “I am not educated enough”, “ I can’t, I am not good enough”.

Henry Ford once said, “If you believe you can do a thing, or you believe you can’t, in either case, you’re probably right.” So, it’s you who decide the positive or negative thought and in either chose you will test its fruits.

The success is behind several failures, and if you lose the patience, you will probably lose the long-run victories. Take it as easy, have a good glimpse to the failure factors and contemplate the lessons learnt to endeavor future objectives. It’s sure if you conceive that you are not enough creative and not capable of doing the things, vice versa you can change your perceive towards positive and convince to yourself that you are capable of doing the things and can challenge to your peers. One of the famous words inherited from Napoleon Hill was, “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve”. So, that means, if you believe that you are not well enough and see bridges of barriers ahead of you, you can also believe that you are enough and have the capacity to interact and integrate to others and you can also kick out the fears that hold you back.

Every second that passed is non-refundable; therefore, instead of obsessing your mind within the past events, the future long-term events ought to enchant you. Get eliminate the idée fixe and also the one-track mind, expand the scope and never regret the decisions you made and be content to it. Innovate the things, determine it, hasten to it, away from procrastination, and the jaundice-full friends that might mislead you.

Your soul wants encourage just like the roses need a rain. Don’t be dependent and wait for others to approve what you would like, you need to be the one who creates and approves his opinion stopping the fear of rejection. Break the bridges of panic and fear and don’t wait till others disapprove your thoughts, take the responsibility of yourself as a whole.

When you do nothing at all, you accomplish nothing at all. If you become hypertensive to the opinions of others and constantly seek the approval of the opposite sex, co-workers, spouse, friend, and etcetera it would turned to you to accept the destructive criticism that eventually would abandon you from the success.

Repeat the words, “I can do it, I can do it, I can do it”. To unlock your mental powers, unleash the brake to overcome the barriers ahead of you, dare to travel forward, constantly think about success, develop the habit of courage, and finally realize that every great success is often preceded by failure.

Don’t see the challenges ahead of you are impenetrable barriers, if so, you are prone and susceptible to the misdirection, keep clutching each single challenge and tackle it before it erupts, because there are no secrets to success, it is the result of preparation, diligence, and hard work.

Finally, the most powerful weapon you have is your mind, so use it effectively. There are many secrets of fears that are good things to you to know. They’re all learned, they can, therefore, be unlearned, by practice, so don’t let fears hold you back.

Elmi Hassan Samatar

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